Shhh! Why silent book clubs are the introvert's new social playground

It’s a good time to be a reader. A decade ago, the words “book club” might have brought to mind a living room full of people discussing a set title over snacks and drinks.

Today, book clubs come in many forms - in-person or online, through libraries, bookstores or even social media communities.

There are clubs for every kind of reader, from celebrity-led groups to BookTok collectives.

But not everyone thrives in traditional book clubs. For many, the pressure to keep up with reading schedules, contribute to discussions, or even make small talk can turn what should be a relaxing activity into a stressful one. 

Enter the silent book club - a simple yet powerful idea that’s reshaping how people connect through reading.

The concept was founded in 2012 by two friends from San Francisco, Guinevere de la Mare and Laura Gluhanich.

The concept grew out of their own love of reading and their frustration with the expectations of traditional book clubs. Both were avid readers who struggled to finish assigned books or find time for social meetups that didn’t feel forced.

Their solution was to meet up in a bar, bring their own books, and just read together quietly. What began as a casual experiment among friends has since grown into a worldwide movement.

At its core, the silent book club is built on one simple idea: reading alone, together.

There’s no assigned book, no deadlines and no required discussion. Members gather in a public space - often a bar, café, library, park or bookstore - and spend time reading their own books in companionable silence.

A typical session lasts about two hours. The first 20 to 30 minutes are for casual introductions and ordering drinks or snacks. Then, the group falls silent for about an hour while everyone reads whatever they’ve brought.

After that, there’s an optional social time. People can share what they’re reading, talk about anything that comes up or simply pack up and leave. There’s no expectation to participate - which is part of the appeal.

Silent book clubs cater especially to introverts, busy professionals and anyone who loves the idea of reading in the company of others without having to perform socially.

The format also appeals to readers who value the ritual of reading but want to make it part of their social lives. It’s a blend of solitude and community - quiet but shared.

The growth of silent book clubs has also been fueled by the post-pandemic craving for gentle social connection.

After years of isolation and digital interaction, many people are seeking ways to be around others without the intensity of conversation or social performance. They fill that gap perfectly, offering calm togetherness in a noisy world.

In South Africa, the movement has begun to take root. Following the global format, local versions have emerged in several cities. Readers can now join gatherings like the Cape Town Silent Book Club, the Silent Book Club Durban Upper Highway and the George Public Silent Book Club.

Each group operates independently but stays true to the global model - an hour of quiet reading, surrounded by others who appreciate the same thing.

Silent book clubs aren’t trying to replace traditional ones. They simply offer another option - a format that prioritises reading itself over conversation.